Dec 28 2007
Violence invaded my home
Perhaps influenced by TV, perhaps heard us talking about the crimes, somewhat Ian started to act violently.
Well, this doesn’t happen just yesterday or today. I’ve seen this coming.
On Christmas day, in my mom’s house, he was angry with me for asking him to eat more. He screamed at me: “Beat you! I beat you!”
On Boxing day, in MIL’s house, he screamed at MIL: “I don’t want you! I kill you! You die! I go back to my house!”
Later I explained to him how disappointed I am with his way of speaking, and how it hurt MIL and me. The problem is, I’m not sure whether he listens or not, coz before I say much he already kept apologizing.
“I’m sorry mama. I’m very sorry to you.”
MIL refused to accept his apologies. I know it is hard for her, coz everytime Ian does something bad he just apologies very quickly, and then repeat the same. He apologies too easily without really mean it. Sigh! I find it hard to accept his apologies as well, not to mention MIL.
I brought him home after lunch on the same day (since I worked from home). He seem to be really sorry for what he said and really behaved. After waking up from his nap, he sat on the couch and suddenly said: “Mama, I will not kill you again.”
See, this is Ian - how to remain angry with him? He could really make me laugh!
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haha..maybe he had a dream or something :p
hmm … maybe you should not take his words too seriously.
sometimes kids just imitate what they see/ hear and they do not really mean it.
anyway, keep up the good job you are doing and i am sure ian will pull around some time soon.
jazzmint: Hmm… maybe.
Busy bee: Sigh, tried to take it easily, but his behaviour has drawn hatred from people around. For example, MIL, SIL, my sister, my cousines, all dislike him like this. I’m not sure whethr he did this to his friends or not. I’m just trying to tell him what he’s doing isn’t right, but I guess he hate to be told that as well… very difficult, and I think I’ve done a lousy job at this…