Apr 11 2006
Loving/ Caring Ian
Ian is a very loving boy. I’m not saying that he is sweet that he is loving. I’m actually refering to his loving/caring gesture.
Of all the things that I am proud of him, his loving character is the one that I am most proud of and happy with. He is not perfect. He has a lot of weakness in his personality. But being a loving and caring person, there is so much quality in him…
Since very young (like few months old), before he could even crawl, he already liked to use kisses to express love. He kissed me, DH, grandmom, etc – without even being asked. He kissed his bear-bear softoy, Barney softoy, and any toys that he likes. These kisses are not like other children where they open their mouth big-big and leave a lot of salivar with you. Ian really knows how to kiss (or peg) properly – slowly touching his lips on my lips or cheek.
He also hugs people, and he enjoys hugging me and his Barney softoy.
He cares for people, when they are hurt or sad or crying. He always worried/ gives in when he finds people angry with him.
When I cried at night, he’d call me ‘mama’ in a very concerned and worried tone. He’d come and hug me and kiss me, though he didn’t know what was happening.
He has so much of such good quality in him, that I find it so touching and I want to give him more love. I just feel that the hugs and kisses I gave him are just not enough.
Oh, my dear Ian boy… how do you become like this? Were you born with this good quality, or what have we taught you right? I hope this quality in you will last, and I also hope being too loving will not bring you any harm in future.
That’s really sweet of Ian..! and mature beyond his age..
So sweet, he must have got lots of kisses and hugs from you, then only he knows how to use them now!
It’s nice to have a loving boy…. let him continue to express his love in this manner.. when he’s older.. he would not be those macho macho man who things giving affection freely is not to call for..
Btw, when is your baby due?